What Do Women Find Attractive In A Man?

It’s a simple question, but many men have no idea what women find attractive in a man.Women don’t even know what they like half the time. What we do know is what works and that successful daters have similar qualities.

We have listed the top qualities that men possess as successful daters.

Be Natural And Go With The Flow. Negging is a form of making fun of her playfully, but Over-negging as well as over-complimenting will make you appear to be trying too hard. After a few drinks, friends of mine tend to quietly mention that I am super negging. It’s not a good look.

Be polite To People & Be A Gentleman. Men don’t tend to have much class these days. Chivalry is not dead as long as decent men keep it alive. Please – Thank you’s – Holding open doors – Waiting until her food arrives before you eat. All this simple stuff is not optional when you are dating, this simple shit also makes you appear to be Prince Charming. Which is what Walt Disney has annoyingly told every girl she needs to find.

Self-confidence And Ambition. Have a life – Pursuing women is not the same as pursuing worthwhile goals. Women that are worth it, want men not lap dogs. A man that has nothing in his life but a woman to treat as his whole world is not a man. Mixing this ambitous demeanour with confident body language and how you speak is key.

Educated Men- Now this is not formal education. An educated man can enjoy his own company pondering the perplexities of the world around him, he doesn’t NEED a woman to complete him. He makes himself happy with what he does, not what others do for him. If he’s not happy about his body, he works out. If he’s not good at something, he works on it, he is always educating himself and working on bettering himself.

Honesty. In all fairness we have all lied from time to time but The Bachelor doesn’t need to lie – he doesn’t need to hide or ask permission to do whatever he wants. This is his life – “If you don’t like what I do, you are free to leave”.

Take things slowly men don’t need to rush situations, a lot of women like to take things slow and that’s just fine with us. Sex is on the cards but she resists last minute, you go home with blue balls, no big deal. Next time things get hot and heavy the Bachelor tells her to chill – there’s no rush, we can do this next time. Having sex with any women is not a reward based program. If she pulls some shit like “You have to earn it”, tell her you suddenly don’t want it. You’re not a dog working for treats.

You’re a man – You train dogs.